If your mother has died, then you know how extremely painful that experience is.
If your mother has died, then you know how extremely painful that experience is. Even though the pain will slowly go away with time, you'll never stop missing her.
Our moms are some of the strongest people.
They care for us like no other can, and they're always by our side no matter the challenges we might be facing, even when we are the ones that messed up in the first place.
A mom’s love for her kid can't be compared to anything else. Your mom is the first person you connect to as you live inside of her in your first stages of development and then spend so much time with her after you're born. She's your protector, your biggest admirer, and the person who'll never leave you to suffer.
She never before believed that she was capable of loving another human being with such intensity. Now that your mother is gone, you feel incomplete. You'll never be the same again. The bigger the role your mother played in your life, the more difficult it will be once she’s gone.
Grief will vary from person to person, although there are certain emotions that many of us will experience. It can be a source of comfort to hear from somebody who has experienced the emotional rollercoaster of losing a family member and has come out on the other side.
You feel indescribable pain, and it's almost as the world is falling apart. The feeling of losing your dear mother isn't something that can be put into words.
Nothing in the world can prepare you for this loss. She's been by your side since you took your first breath, and that's why her absence leaves you with such crippling pain. As time goes by, you'll gradually regain your composure. That doesn’t mean, though, that things will ever get back to ‘normal.’
It’s difficult even to put how it feels to lose your mother into words, but the key thing to keep in mind is there's no normal way of reacting. Each stage of your journey will be entirely different, and as you wander through your grief, emotions will come and go.
You won't be able to ignore the emotional chaos happening inside you, and you'll lose a big part of yourself as a consequence.
It'll take a while for you to be able to get back to your routine and you'll likely need a break from all and everything.
Initially, you may not feel anything. It might even seem like you're stuck in a dream, and everything that's going on is not really happening. Eventually, everything will catch up with you, and you'll begin to feel less numb.
If you've lost your mother, it's fully understandable how you are feeling right now, even if a long period of time has passed. Nevertheless, she loved you with all heart, and she wouldn't want you to feel as if moving forward is impossible. Instead, she would want you to have a happy and healthy life for which she brought you into this world.
We all need our time to heal, and even if you never feel the same again, it will definitely get better.
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