While love is supposed to be pure and selfless, that's not the reality for most relationships. On the contrary, love is often used as an excuse by people to make things complicated and become drama queens.
While love is supposed to be pure and selfless, that's not the reality for most relationships. On the contrary, love is often used as an excuse by people to make things complicated and become drama queens.
However, some have found the true meaning of love, and they will never let it go! Those people are mature enough to be in mature, long-lasting relationships and understand that drama is reserved for immature individuals, that are only interested in a good story.
However, a successful relationship cannot be based on love only. It requires trust, understanding, care, respect, mutual interests, and similar goals in life. A strong relationship has a bright future, which isn't the case with an immature one.
Here are eight signs that your are in a mature relationship:
1) Your relationship is strong and passionate
In immature relationships, there might be some passion but is usually accompanied by jealousy and selfishness. In a mature relationship, passion is equivalent to love and care and only makes the relationship stronger.
2. You trust each other
Mature relationships don't require validation, as they're founded on comfort and trust, while immature ones are consumed by insecurity and doubts.
3. You are not in a rush to "become serious"
Mature couples aren't preoccupated with timelines and don't allow cultural norms to affect their decisions about things that matter. People who truly love each other allow things to happen at their own pace and trust their instincts.
4. You have great communication
In a mature relationship, partners like to solve their problems face to face, rather than spending their days bickering over a screen.
5. Nobody can come between you two
Nobody can come between partners in a mature relationship. On the other hand, immature relationships are endangered by various outside factors.
6. You feel fulfilled
Mature relationships don't make you feel empty, while an immature one will always make you feel like you're missing something.
7. You are independent
Lovers in a mature relationship are already developed. They respect individuality, while immature ones try to achieve completeness in the relationship.
8. You don't live in the past
Immature relationships dwell on the past. Mature partners aren't worried about each other's past, they're focused on the present moment and the future they'll spend together. Mature couples don't feel threatened by anyone.
A healthy relationship is based on mature love. Ture love exists without question of motive or condition; it simply trusts, accepts, respects, waits, and forgives.
Nevertheless, immature couples are jealous, afraid, impatient, intolerant to mistakes, demanding and needy, and insincere.
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