If you want to be a strong female, there are many things that you simply shouldn’t care about. Just think of the women you admire most, and you will realize that they have a balanced set of priorities.
If you want to be a strong female, there are many things that you simply shouldn't care about.
Just think of the women you admire most, and you will realize that they have a balanced set of priorities.
They've mastered the art of focusing on what's most important in life, and leaving the rest behind.
Here are some things a truly strong woman does not care about:
1) How others perceive their life choices
Other peoples’ opinions aren't important to strong women.
They trust themselves to make the best choices for them, whether they're deciding on a career, choosing a life partner, or learning how to parent their kids.
That's not to say that they never make mistakes, but they have learned to trust their judgment.
2) Being compared to other women based on their looks
Our society pits women against each other.
It encourages them to try and look "hotter" or more stylish than their colleagues, friends, and even relatives.
Strong women know that it is much healthier to focus on your style and enjoy your beauty instead of over-analyzing what others look like.
If some other woman looks good, they're secure enough to give a sincere compliment.
3) Stereotypes regarding the "ideal" body
Of course, being very underweight or overweight might come with health risks, and it is a good idea to listen to your doctor's advice regarding any changes you need to make to your lifestyle.
However, in general, the average woman has no good reason to obsess over the number on the scale. Strong women are perfectly aware that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.
4) Other people's nasty comments on social media
Social media can often fuel insecurity and envy. Most users post pictures and statuses that suggest they're living perfect, happy, and successful lives. Strong females are savvy enough to know that what they see on social media is often a façade.
They may enjoy catching up with their friends' news, but they're too busy living their lives to caring about Instagram pictures and Facebook statuses.
5) Ex-partners
When a strong woman ends a relationship, she stops wasting valuable brainpower on what her ex-partner is doing, who they're seeing, and whether they miss her.
Strong females are mature enough to understand that the healthiest thing to do is move on.
They never look back or over-analyze the relationship.
6) Fake friends
Strong females do not waste their time on toxic people who make them feel bad about themselves or their lives.
They'd rather be alone than spend time with those who want to drag them down.
7) Failure
Many people are reluctant to take chances, fearing that they'll fail or make themselves look stupid.
For instance, they might hold back from applying for a promotion at work or trying a new sport.
On the other hand, strong females are not afraid of failure.
They know that we cannot all do everything correctly the first time around and that mastering a new skill takes practice.
8) What society thinks about marriage
A strong woman may want to get married at some point, but she is not obsessed with weddings.
Society has taught women to panic if they reach a certain age without a ring on their finger. However, a confident woman takes a more balanced approach.
Even if she's looking for "the one," she certainly doesn't think of herself as undesirable merely because she has not been married by a certain age. After all, it might be her own choice!
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